I love the happy noises she makes but she topping you from the bottom. Cheating you down the sides of her mouth not taking you deep. She's sucking you the way she wants, not the way you want. If a woman does that to me I tell him what I want and if I don't get it I stop. I do try to learn the things that excite a woman the most but not up to the point of not getting what I want the way I need it. That's definitely a submissive position but she's not being submissive. It's called topping from the bottom. I would have shown her the door and told her to find a submissive man. Not that there's anything wrong with that.